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Facts & Secrets About The Amish Community


For most people, the only thing they know about the Amish is they probably won’t be reading this list. Secluding themselves from technology and electricity, the Amish live a life away from other Americans . Because of this , the average person knows very few facts about the inner workings of the Amish religion and culture.

The Amish are not always who you think they are, especially when you don’t have adequate knowledge about them. Whether you love or hate them – these facts may change your view of this community.

Outsiders Are “English”

It does not matter what race you are, the color of your skin, or the country where you live – Basically, anyone other than Amish is referred to as an English person.

This is because when the Amish first came to America, all the English settlers and English-speaking people were in contact with them.

Because they rarely change their habits, they continue to refer to strangers as English. They could not call them Americans because the Amish are Americans, too.

Teens Get Free Passes

Amish parents fully understand the rebellious side of teenagers! Just because you grew up in a secluded society without technology does not mean you will be an ideal teenager. Even Amish teenagers face problems and explore their rebellious side.

However, they do not face big consequences when they run into trouble because they get free passes. The Amish understand why teenagers are like this and hope that as long as they do not punish them, they will want to stay in society.

Outsiders Can Join The Community

Compared to other religions, the Amish religion does not give a sermon to strangers to join their faith, but they welcome people who will not like to join them.

Many of the outsiders actually convert to Amish doctrine, and even turn to be well-respected members of the Amish society! When someone desires to join, they will be attached to an Amish family for some time and participate in activities and homework.

Dating Involves Sharing A Bed One Night

Parents are trying to keep their children from sleeping with someone, but Amish let them! Well, they actually do not “sleep” with each other the way you think.

A segment of the dating procedures includes bundling, which is when a girl and boy will be sharing a bed one night. Both are fully dressed and separated but sleep side by side.

The bundling is supposed to enable the strengthening of the bond between them as they will stay up all night talking with each other.

Amish And Electricity

In contrast to most beliefs, not all Amish people make use of ZERO electricity. While some portion of the Amish communities are more conservative than others, many have come to the reality that sometimes you just need to make use of electricity.

They can use electricity for emergencies, for work or anything else they deem necessary. The motive behind why the Amish live the lifestyle of the older day’s generation, before technology and electricity is because of something known as “Gelassenheit”.

This means “letting be” in German. The Amish use it in their philosophy that the earth must be used as God has originally taught it should be.

Men’s Facial Hair

If you see a man from Amish, you would probably have noticed his long beard but a clean-shaven face. Returning to the belief that they must live according to the plan of God’s creation, Amish does not shave their natural hair.

In contradiction to this, however, men are obligatory to shave their mustaches. This is because back in the 1800s, having a mustache represents wealth or probably you might be in the army.

Amish does not follow stylish avowals and the presence of a mustache may contradict their desire to be ordinary.

Most Of Those Teens Choose The Amish Life

It is difficult to imagine why the teenagers will return to the Amish’s life but the majority of them do. After the end of their Rumspringa, most of them return to their Amish community.

Shortly thereafter, they will be baptized and they are with authorization part of the Amish doctrine.

Of course, a few do choose that the non-Amish world is better and decides to stay. However, this does not mean that they cannot return later because they will always have the option to be adopted and welcomed back into society.

Recording To Memory

There are no Instagram accounts for the Amish! It may be obvious that the Amish do not use cameras because it is a piece of technology, and they don’t do paintings as well!

A segment of the dating procedures includes bundling, which is when a girl and boy will be sharing a bed one night. Both are fully dressed and separated but sleep side by side.

The bundling is supposed to enable the strengthening of the bond between them as they will stay up all night talking with each other.

There Are No Arranged Marriages

Despite the thinking of people, the Amish do not force people to be involved in marriage.

If they have the option of joining the Amish Church or not, then, of course, they have the option of marrying who they want. There is no arranged marriage but only allows you to marry a certain type of person.

You Can’t Date Until You Join the Church

It makes sense for the Amish to marry only the Amish because you need someone who will want to accept your faith.

In this case, you cannot date anyone who has not been baptized in the Amish Doctrine. You cannot even start dating until you are officially a member of the Amish community and dating is done in public places only.

Honeymoon At the Bride’s Parent’s House!

How will you feel having a honeymoon in your parents’ home? The wedding night is usually a great night for the bride and new groom but not in Amish traditions!

The honeymoon will begin at the bride’s parents’ home so that they can clean their house the next morning as a way to express their gratitude.

The Honeymoon Continues…

After the first night as a couple in the house of the bride’s parents, they go to the next house.

The rest of the honeymoon is spent visiting relatives of each other as husband and wife. If they do not have their own home yet, they will live in the bride’s parents’ home until they can get their own home.

The Thing With Barn Building

If your neighbor needs a shed, the community will build it. Raising the barn is a common activity in the Amish community.

When society meets to build a barn for those who need it. Remember, they are building this without using electrical equipment and cranes. The purpose of this activity is to show your discontent to help others and love your neighbor.

The Amish Rarely Get Cancer

Amish may not have cancer treatment, but they certainly have knowledge of preventing it! Staying in the Amish community truly reduces your chances of getting cancer or other severe diseases/illnesses.

The reason is due to the fact that everything they eat is organic and it is self-grown. Also, there is no presence of alcohol or cigarettes; that is a huge plus, too.

They Speak Three Languages

Everyone in the Amish community speaks three languages, with their mother tongue language being German! When the Amish first settled in America, they pledged to bring their traditions from their homeland in Germany, including their mother tongue language.

This is why all their religious services in German and many of their fundamentals traditions are originated from a German word. What other two languages do they speak?

The Other Two Languages

In addition to German, they speak English and Pennsylvania Dutch.

In schools and businesses, English is used basically because this is the common language in the United States and sometimes you need to communicate with strangers. The Amish also communicate in Pennsylvania Dutch, which is a form of German, in everyday dealings.

Mennonites Are NOT Amish

Not everyone in the hood is an Amish. A class among them are the Mennonite. Notwithstanding they share some similarities, the Amish and the Mennonites are not in the same groups. This can really be a great insult if you confuse them.

The Mennonites belong to the Christian group but are not as stringent as the Amish. The Mennonites do not isolate themselves and they live in more modern civilizations.

Majority of the Mennonites makes use of technology and they even drive cars! In some situations, the Mennonite cannot be distinguished from their dress.

Meidung Means, You Are Banished

It’s basically an Amish version of placing someone’s status on the “deadline”.

Amish never jokes with Ordnung and they take it extremely seriously and if someone derails, there will be consequences. One of them can be Meidung, meaning the community will avoid the person.

Teens Get To Experience The Outside World

Their Rumspringa can continue as long as they like. Amish teenagers are sent out to the world and allowed to experience non-Amish technology, and anything else that intrigues them.

Some return to their community after a week or so, but some remain in the real world for years before they realize they want to join Amish avowals. It can be a scary experience for them or a great one but in both cases, they learn from it.

Rumspringa = Running Around

Talking about teenagers making a show of their disobedient side! Rumspringa, which literally translates to “running around” is a rite of track for Amish teenagers.

Stuck between the ages of 14 and 18, they are allowed to practice “English” life, as they refer to the social order outside the Amish realm. They do it because it will not be fair if they do not allow the Amish children to see what they will surrender when baptized.

Inbreeding Is Common

In a small community, you do not have many options for marriage which can lead to inbreeding.

No, the Amish do not deliberately marry their cousins but there is a great chance in the marriage of relatives. They dwell in small communities in Amish. Since you have to marry someone from the Amish, you do not have many choices.

DNA Testing Is Illegal

This is why it is easy to marry your third cousin or someone who is involved in genes with you.

This is usually not something that he or she can understand and can verify it either. DNA testing is contrary to Amish rules. They believe that the marriage of relatives happens, it is the will of God. Better not think about it!

Community Potlucks

Amish are known for sharing because sharing shows caring! Communal foods are very essential in the Amish community.

It’s basically like a great potluck where everyone brings something to the big table. This happens quite frequently and it is the perfect period to catch up with everyone. Men and women have conversations, while young people use it as a moment to socialize!

No More School After the 8th Grade

Everyone is a high school dropout! Education is not as significant for the Amish as it is for the strangers.

You complete your education after completing the 8th grade and there is no secondary school. By then, men must have chosen a profession for life and women become housewives. I think learning algebra is not that important!

No Church Building

Sightseers will not find a good-looking stained-glass church anywhere in an Amish community! The Amish are not for flashy churches and cathedrals.

Actually, they believe that they do not need a church or something sophisticated because you can teach the Bible anywhere. In fact, this allows an Amish church service to take place almost anywhere, as you are about to see.

Church Anywhere

Since church services are not done in the church, it literally means that everywhere there can be a place for an Amish service.

The services of the church can be carried out outside or in their homes or where they consider it better on a given day. The services of the Amish church are very simple services without organs, altars, candles or other things that are normally found in a church!

They Don’t Think They Have The Better Religion

The fact that the Amish church demands a different way of living and practising the Lord’s way does not mean that they think they are better than others.

They will accept you for what you believe or what you do not believe. They do not care about your religious beliefs or who your God is. Arrogance is a great sin for them, so they do not brag that the Amish church is the best.

No Birth Control

Whatever happens, happens and is what God wanted. The Amish do not have contraceptives in their community because they do not believe in them.

Having a big family is a big goal for them and being pregnant is a blessing from God. In fact, the Amish want to have as numerous children as conceivable. On average, a married couple has 5 to 7 children!

They Are Extreme Pacifists

They will not enlist in the army soon. Like the Quakers in Pennsylvania, the Amish are contrary to any system of violence.

The Amish have to do with keeping peace and will not use any force. Because of this confidence, they will do everything possible to avoid the military and they accept as true that war is bad.

Yes, They Get Medical Treatment

Unlike those extreme cults that do not believe in any medicine and treatment. In spite of the fact that they do not make do with technology and electricity, there is still a modern thing they do use.

While they favor natural treatments and remedies, they still make use the recent medicine if compulsory. If someone becomes sick, they don’t object in taking them to a doctor or, in life-threatening cases, to a hospital.

There is not anything in the Bible that pronounces getting medical treatment is immoral!

Their Main Belief

There is a simple principle in which the Amish believe that it is like their golden rule. It is “Be not conformed to this world,” extracted from Romans 8:12 in the Bible.

This quote fundamentally means not being content with mundane things and that is what the Amish do by isolating themselves from the modern world.

Origin Of The Word Amish

The word Amish is not just a random word chosen for this faith and comes from the follower of the Swiss Anabaptist church Jakob Ammann.

By becoming a controversial Anabaptist and through his teachings he caused the European Mennonite church to split.

He educated his admirers to live a humble lifestyle, to love their community and, most outstandingly, to follow the doctrines of the Bible the way it was intended.

Over 250,000 Amish people in the U.S.

In the 1700s earlier period, the Amish inhabitants in Europe (mainly Germany) began to immigrate to the New World. On their first arrival, they dwell in Pennsylvania, but now they are living in more than 28 other states.

There are more than 318,000 Amish people who live in the United States and the Amish country is, in reality, moving in the western direction! The Amish communities realize an annual growth rate of 3.6%.

They Divided Up Into the Old And New Order

In early 1862, there was a series of conferences over the years to discuss the place of the Amish people regarding the innovations of society and the work of the church.

The Amish progressives branched out, following a new modern order, while the Amish conservatives did not want anything to do with the new innovations. The old order is now called the Amish Mennonite Church of the Old Order.

Comparison With Mennonites

The originator of the Amish community was an Anabaptist. From the Anabaptist avowals, some distinct Anabaptist communities separated themselves and eventually became Amish and Mennonite.

The Amish actually leave the Mennonite church. Mennonite Anabaptists cling to some of the beliefs of Amish Anabaptists. Nonetheless, the Mennonite Anabaptist community has some significant variances with that of the Amish.

Both believe that people should be baptized as adults because children cannot make the decision on their own. However, the Mennonites are adopting much more technology. Even the style of the Mennonite dress is different.

Mennonite Anabaptists tend to dress in more modern clothing, but making sure it is simple.

Property Goes To Youngest Son

In historical fact, to some degree properties usually goes to the eldest son, but that’s not what happens in the Amish families.

The property/farm of a family generally goes to the youngest male child, because when the parents are ready to retire, all the older children have already moved. Properties cannot go to the female child, though, reasons are that men are the winners of the family.

Why Do Kids Play With Faceless Dolls?

They do not inconvenience an Amish child, but they probably do it to a stranger. Children are given toys to play with, but they are not like the ones you grew up with.

Their toys are homemade and simple. Dolls do not have faces because they have to teach young children that someone’s appearance does not matter.

Some Amish Allow Their Photo to Be Taken

Be careful when taking pictures if you see Amish walking or visiting an Amish community.

We know that Amish is not allowed to use cameras or even to have images of themselves, but there are also rules for other people to take pictures of yours. Some Amish categorically refuse to be photographed, but others agree provided they do not pose in photos or videos.

Some Communities Allow Phones

Nowadays, having no phone would make things very difficult, but the Amish are not allowed to use technology. Nevertheless, they understand the importance of phones, especially in emergencies.

This is why some Amish communities now allow the use of a phone between certain families. The phone, on the other hand, they cannot enter the house and must be kept in a barn/shed at another location.

In comparison, a Mennonite devotee absolutely cannot abstain from technology.

Amish Society Acts Like A Vocational School

Amish children need education until the 8th grade, but that does not mean they do not learn anything after that.

The whole community acts as a vocational school for them as they learn to do important work. They learn to be farmers, housewives, carpenters, and traders. It’s basically like a college for them because they know how to do a job later.

Church And State Are Separate

One of the biggest disputes in historical fact is whether the church and the state should be separated or not, and the Amish accept as true they should be.

The word of God is much more significant to them than the rule of our government. That is why they reject the benefits of Social Security or public funds, do not swear and never engage in the military.

They likewise cast-off authority figures for the reason that the church is their only authority.

Handle Crimes Internally

Because they positioned their church in front of the government, meaning they like to deal with problems of theirs directly. This is really something for which many people criticize the Amish faith because when a crime is committed, they do not always report it.

In general, they would prefer that their internal discipline in the church should take over the business and not the police, but sometimes report crimes if it is very serious.

No Music For the Amish

It may be obvious that the Amish have no iPods or listen to music on the radio, but they cannot make the music themselves too!

They are not permitted to play all sort of musical tools for this will be a kind of self-expression, which possibly will lead to pride. Contemplate on all those musicians and singers who believe that they are better than anyone else because of their God’s given gift!

Singing To A Different Tune

But they sing songs in the church but not the kind you think. Their songs come from a German high school songwriter known as Ausbunch, which is considered the oldest hymn of the Protestant Church which is still used.

Songs do not contain musical notes and are simply ecclesiastical melodies transmitted from generation to generation.

Engagement Must Be Blessed By the Church

You cannot just get engaged and get married without having a say. Once the couple starts dating, it does not take long before they are engaged.

When the man proposes, both require approval from the Amish Church. Once they are blessed by the church, they are allowed to marry, and an advertisement is usually posted in the city newsletter.

Weddings Are Pretty Basic

Somewhat old, rather borrowed, to some degree blue but nil new. When a man proposes, he does not give his soon-to-be fiancée a diamond ring. It would be a sign of vanity.

In addition, the bride does not wear any jewelry or makeup at her wedding. She covers her hair and the wife-to-be wears a modest blue dress. The nuptial ceremony can last for hours and usually have a fall, a kind of romance!

Women Wear Their Wedding Dress Each Sunday

Majority of people wear their wedding clothing once and then save it in their closets all through the rest of their lives but the same is not found of the Amish women!

For her nuptial celebration, she has to put on her own wedding dress, whereas some of the communities do necessitate the use of blue, others allow the bride to choose the color of her own choice.

At the end of the wedding, this is the dress she will wear every Sunday, and it will also be the dress she will be buried inside.

In contrast, the women of the Mennonite Anabaptist wear modest clothes, but they are more diverse in style. Some dress up completely in modern style.

Amish Help Each Other Pay Medical Bills

While Amish accepts medical treatment, they still have no health insurance, and billing may be expensive.

Fortunately for them, if someone is sick in their community, they will all work together to help cover expenses. They will appoint a leader to handle the funding and will not stop until the bill is covered!

Amish Can’t Own Or Drive A Car

Cars are in the category of technology, so the Amish is not allowed to own or even drive a car.

However, they can have someone else driving them if it is for a social or business day out. The reason cars pose a threat to their lifestyle is that it can attract Amish to give up their faith because it gives them access to the outside world.

They Are Mutually Dependent On Each Other

The other reason they do not believe in using cars is that it will make them less dependent on the members of their community.

Amish communities are very close and everyone needs the help of each other. Their lifestyle favors neighbors in helping each other but if you have a car, you do not have to rely too much on your neighbor.

You Are Baptized When Deemed Old Enough

Most people are baptized as a baby or a toddler, but Amish people think it should be someone’s decision. Despite what many people are thinking, being an Amish has no connection with cultism. Members are allowed to decide whether they want to join their religion or not.

Children and toddler are not matured enough to make a clear decision of independently choosing their own religion, this is the strong reason why children and toddler are not baptized into the Amish community.

As an alternative, Amish people are usually baptized between the ages of 16 and 24.

They Have A Book Of Rules

Sure they have a lot of rules to remember, so it’s good to have a book that lists them all! The Amish people have two important books in their lives: the Bible and Ordnung. The latter means order or discipline in German, a book in which they abide by.

The book reminds them of what they can and cannot basically do, how to live their daily life. They take Ordnung seriously, and if you violate one of its rules, you will get the penalty.

Amish Women Have Subservient Roles

Amish are very well-informed and still treat women as people who need a man in their lives to look after them.

Amish women are disallowed from being a bishop, preachers or deacons, implying that their only function is a housewife. The church, society and their families come first and this is what they need to cater to. They even permit their husbands to make decisions for them.

How To Be Accepted

If you want to convert to the Amish religion in full, there are a bunch of things you will need to do.

For beginners, you need to learn German and Pennsylvania Dutch. You need to adapt to a lifestyle without technology and leave all forbidden luxuries. No matter how hard you try, though, you can only turn out to be Amish if the church permits you.

They Do Shop

Shopping may seem like a futile thing but no matter which community you live in, it is inevitable.

Amish grows a lot of their food, but sometimes they need to buy something they cannot grow. In most Amish communities, there is at least one dry goods store where they can buy things like writing supplies, books, candles, etc.

Graves Are Dug By Hand

When it comes to entombment, the Amish must dig all their graves by hand. The reason behind this is that they look at the shovel as a piece of modern technology.

Therefore, it is forbidden to use the shovel, and it is only allowed to dig the graves with their hands – the old way.

1 In 5 American Puppy Mills Are Amish

The Amish community owns 20% of the US puppy mills. Dog breeding is a big measure of the Amish community. However, puppy mills were controversial even within the Amish community because of dog therapy.

When small dogs cannot be bred or sold as puppies, they would massively massacre them reportedly. Because dogs are considered as livestock by the Amish, they are not responsible for the violation of any law.

The treatment of dogs by Amish remains a topic of controversy.

The Amish Don’t Evangelize

Unlike other Christian denominations, the Amish make no effort to promote adherence to their religion through evangelism. They have a preference to remain in a secluded society and to focus on making better the life of their society.

Not only is Amish not actively recruited, but a rigid lifestyle makes the union relatively impenetrable.

The Amish do not deny those who want to join their ranks, but the fact of having to learn Pennsylvania Dutch and abandoning any technology can cause a person to think twice before lifting the hat and the beard.

Women Are Required To Cover Their Heads

Women usually go barefoot throughout the farm, at home, wearing black shoes and stockings for religious services. Married women wear a black cape and apron to church as their uniform, while single women wear a white cape and apron with theirs.

When at work on the farm, all women dress in grey aprons. Women always dress in prayer caps or head coverings on their head, so if they feel the urge to pray all day, their heads are covered and consecrated to the Lord.

Amish say that you always have to be prepared to pray.

No Belts Or Zippers

Men wear black colored suits tied with a hook and eye and have no outer pockets. The trousers have no zippers and rather has buttons for buttoning up the flap.

One or two braces also lift their trousers because the belts are not allowed due to the striking buckle that exists.

For the Church services, Amish men wear a plain white shirt with a black coat and a jacket on top. Some men also wore bow black ties with their church attire.

The suit coat contains no buttons or collars since it reminds us of the military uniform that signifies war thus the Amish rejects it. All men wear straw hats (in summer) or black felt caps (in winter) whenever they have official occasions.

Being Excommunicated

When someone is officially excluded from the community, it basically means you are in the Bann and treatment will be given to you as a stranger. Depending on your “crime”, you can be excommunicated for days, weeks or even months.

As cruel as it may sound, the purpose is for the person to understand what they have done wrong and express regret for it. They surely do not make the same mistake again!

Simple Clothing Only

No one does any mall shopping anytime soon! Since much of the Amish philosophy is to avoid vanity and selfishness, they ensure equality in everyone.

This is why all the women wear the same simple dresses and the men are dressed in black trousers and a plain shirt. No jewelry, make-up, accessories (along with a Panama or bonnet), or decorations. Fundamentally, they are dressed in uniform 24/7.